There are generally four different types of mediation: 1) Facilitative Mediation; 2) Evaluative or Directive Mediation; 3) Transformational Mediation; 4) Transactional Mediation. Let's discuss each so you can understand which is best for your situation....
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There are alternatives to fighting your spouse in court in front of a judge, spending your funds that could be better used for your children's college educations or your financial security in your later years. Over the years, alternatives to fighting out a divorce in court for a year or more and spending tens if not hundreds of thousands of dollars have been developed. These are grouped under the heading of ADR (alternatives to dispute resolution, which is what a court is, after all, “the court of last resort,” and it should be just that!...
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The law in New Jersey is clear; an engagement ring given to a spouse PRIOR to the wedding is a gift in contemplation of marriage and is, therefore, NOT a marital asset subject to equitable distribution. In plain English, the engagement ring belongs to the recipient and the “giver” has no legal right to get it back nor to receive any value for it. So, what happens when someone gives his/her spouse an engagement ring that is a family heirloom, was his/her mother’s or grandmother’s ring, or has a diamond(s) in it that came from his/her mother or grandmother or...
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In the midst of divorce, clients tell me they want custody of their children. I then engage in a discussion that includes, “In 99.99% of the cases neither parent gets custody of their children to the exclusion of the other parent.” Unless a parent is so mentally incapacitated that he or she can’t parent their children, the parents under NJ law share custody in some fashion. What must be done is to come up with a parenting plan that is in the children’s best interest (the standard in NJ) and which meets, as much as possible, each parent’s desire to...
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Starting October 1, 2021, Bruce Matez, Esq., APM became president of the prestigious New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators (NJAPM). This statewide, non-profit organization of general, civil, divorce and family law mediators is dedicated to...
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Gary Borger has been tapped to discuss ethics in the practice of family law and how to handle custody cases at the upcoming October 19, 2021 webinar for paralegals, "New Jersey Family Law Practice for Paralegals." Among other topics, Gary will cover...
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Gary Borger and Bruce Matez are pleased to name Deena L. Betze, Esquire as a partner in the firm, BorgerMatez, P.A. “We are excited to welcome Deena as our partner and look forward to Deena expanding and growing her practice of family law in South Jersey,” said Bruce Matez. “Her skills as a divorce and family law attorney are respected throughout New Jersey and she brings the passionate drive toward settling our clients’ cases fairly for which BorgerMatez is known,” added Gary Borger. For over 30 years, Deena has represented both men and women in divorce, mediation, custody, child support, adoption...
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BorgerMatez congratulates BetterWayDivorce (South Jersey Collaborative Divorce Professionals) for being featured among the 2019 Nonprofit Stars by South Jersey Biz....
Continue readingGary L. Borger, Esq. will be a speaker, moderator and co-chair of the 2020 annual NJ Association for Justice (NJAJ) Boardwalk seminar which will be held virtually on August 5-7. Gary will be moderating a panel on allocation of college costs and child support for college students among the two parents and the student and participating in an alimony panel....
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BorgerMatez will be participating in the NJAJ Education Foundation, Inc.’s Boardwalk Seminar May 9, 2019 through May 10, 2019 at the Harrah’s Resort in Atlantic City, NJ. The Boardwalk Seminar 2019 features 34 seminars over three days. The focus this year is The New Tax Law – How it Affects all Areas of Family Law....
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