By: Bruce P. Matez, Esquire I spend most of my days with couples who are divorcing in mediation sessions, clients in the process of divorcing or who are divorced and continue to have ongoing disputes with their former spouses, and with couples who are seeking alternative ways to resolve disputes. One of the major themes […]
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BorgerMatez, P.A. proudly welcomes Mary Cay Trace, Esq. to the firm. Mary Cay will continue to practice family law at the firm’s Woodbury and Cherry Hill offices: 105 North Broad Street Woodbury, NJ 08096 1415 Marlton Pike East (Rte.70), Suite 305 Cherry Hill, NJ 08034
By: Peter M. Halden, Esquire During the past half century or so, the subject of domestic violence has evolved from a laughing matter to a deadly serious societal concern. One of television’s most popular early shows was The Honeymooners, a staple of the mid-1950s, which starred Jackie Gleason as the oft-frustrated Ralph Kramden. As the […]
By: Deena L. Betze, Esquire New Jersey is known nationally as an “adoption friendly” state. Families from all over the country come to New Jersey adoption agencies to place and adopt their children in this state. Why? New Jersey statutes, case law, and public policy all favor adoption and the best interests of the child, […]
BorgerMatez, P.A. is proud to announce that Katrina Vitale, Esq. is now “Of Counsel” with the firm. Katrina is continuing to practice at our Woodbury location. 105 North Broad Street Woodbury, NJ 08096
By: Gary L. Borger, Esquire While less than 2% of the divorce cases filed in New Jersey actually going to trial, a lot of money can be wasted on legal fees as a divorce is processed through the court system heading toward trial even if it settles (as most cases do) at some point before […]
By: Gary L. Borger, Esquire One of the areas of dispute in divorce has to do with the contents of the home. How is the furniture, furnishings, tools, cookware, collections and collectibles, antiques, art work, etc., handled in divorce? Most couples eventually work out an in-kind division, that is, they divide up the contents of […]
In a recent case decided by the New York Appellate Court, Weisberger v Weisberger, New York App. Div., July 10, 2018, the court was faced with addressing conflict between parents’ fundamental religious practices and beliefs. At the end of the opinion, the Appellate Court stated the following:
We acknowledge that both parents are sincere in their devotion to the children and, with the exception of occasional lapses in good judgment, neither parent has engaged in conduct that is contrary to the best interests of the children. And yet, the parties' religious, moral, and ethical beliefs and values with respect to raising their children, while once compatible, have now become incompatible in many important respects. While the arrangement set forth here may not fully satisfy both sides of this dispute, courts do not always have the perfect solution for all of the complexities and contradictions that life may bring—the parties must forge a way forward as parents despite their differences. We are confident that both parties will exercise their best judgment in these matters in a manner that furthers the best interests of their children.
The court system is not perfect and does not have perfect solutions to every day issues that we face such as how to address significant differences in parenting style, religious beliefs, moral and ethical differences of opinion, etc. In reality, our court system is not equipped, nor should it be tasked as such, to deal with those types of parenting disputes as they are truly not legal issues, but personal issues.
We see these types of disputes in courtrooms every day. We see these types of disputes in mediations every day. Parents are better equipped to find reasonable and rational solutions to these parenting issues. As the New York Appellate Court stated, parents “must forge a way forward as parents despite their differences.” Mediation and the collaborative divorce process provide parents with a more civilized and goal/interest-based approach to these every-day issues.
Bruce P. Matez, Esq., was awarded the Joseph M. Nardi, Jr Award by the Thomas S. Forkin Family Law American Inn of Court at their annual end-of-year banquet on June 19, 2018. The Joseph M. Nardi, Jr. Award award is presented to a member of the South Jersey Family Law community whose commitment to the […]
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