Divorce (contested and uncontested)
Custody and Parenting Time
Relocation from NJ with Children
Child Support
College Expense Contribution
Alimony
Division of Marital Property and Debt
Pre-Marital and Cohabitation Agreements
Legal Issues of Unmarried Partners or Cohabitants
Same Gender Cohabitation and Breakup Issues
Domestic Violence/Restraining Orders protecting abused spouses or partners
Adoptions - Who can adopt a child?
What is the difference between an "open" and "closed" adoption?
What is a surrender of parental rights?
Are open adoptions enforceable by NJ courts?
Mediation of Divorce and Family Issues


 

Divorce (contested and uncontested)

There are a number of legal reasons which permit the court to grant a divorce, including, but not limited to, adultery, extreme cruelty, separation, voluntarily induced addiction, institutionalization for mental illness, imprisonment, desertion, habitual drunkenness or deviant sexual conduct. All attorneys in the law offices of Borger Jones Matez & Keeley-Cain P.A. are knowledgeable in divorce issues and courtroom-experienced to handle personal circumstances in your case from initial filing to the entry of a final
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Custody and Parenting Time

If you and your spouse or partner have children, the court must decide with whom the children will live. Although the court takes into consideration the wishes of the parents and in some cases the wishes of children in deciding custody issues, the court is required by law to determine what custodial arrangement is in the best interests of each child. Custody agreements address both physical custody - the rights and responsibilities regarding the day-to-day care and activities of their children- and legal custody - the legal rights and responsibilities associated with the child's upbringing. Parents are encouraged to settle these issues themselves with the help of mediators (provided by the court) in and with the assistance of the parents' attorneys outside of the mediation sessions (which the attorneys do not attend). Prolonged custody battles are generally not good for the children. It is best for the children to have as much contact as possible with both parents. The court will set up a schedule to accomplish this unless the parents can settle this themselves.
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Relocation from NJ with Children

While some parents are free to move with their children from state to state, under New Jersey law, neither parent can remove children (born in New Jersey or who have lived here for at least five years) from the State of New Jersey without the other parent's consent or a court order (unless the children are well into their teens and want to move out of state with a parent). Our firm has handled and defended many such relocation applications over the years.
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Child Support

Both parents have a legal obligation to support the children. Depending on the custody agreement, non-custodial parents are typically required to pay child support on a regular basis until the child or children reach the age of 18. The amount of child support paid varies depending on the parent's income and the needs of the dependent children. If you fail to make these payments in a timely manner, you face substantial penalty. Fault has no effect on child support.
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College Expense Contribution

New Jersey is one of the few states that authorizes its judges to allocate the cost of college between the parents (after allocating a portion of the cost to the child). There are many factors taken into account in such a determination, including continuing child support for the college student, also something that
few states' judges are authorized to do.
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Alimony and Spousal Support

In New Jersey, certain spouses may be entitled to ongoing financial assistance from their former spouse after the divorce. This monetary support can be requested by either party. These payments may be for a short or long period of time. Whether support is awarded depends upon factors such as (1) length of the marriage; (2) the income and earning ability of each party; (3) the educational background of each party; (4) the extent to which a party may have had his or her education or career interrupted by raising children; (5) the physical and emotional health of the parties; and (6) other financial and personal circumstances of each party as set forth in our state statutes. What type of alimony, if any, might be appropriate in your case will depend upon many facts and factors that will have to be determined, weighed and analyzed before an opinion on alimony can be rendered by any attorney.
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Division of Marital Property and Debt

Although over 99% of the divorce cases filed are settled at some point, for those few cases that do not settle and must go through a trial before a judge, the court must decide what is a fair division of the assets (property interests) acquired and debts incurred during the marriage. For example, the court must often decide who will live in the house, whether it will be sold and, if so, when. If the home is to be sold, the court may be asked to divide the monies received from its sale. The court may also decide how bank accounts are to be divided, what percentage of the other party's pension or other retirement accounts are to be distributed and who is responsible for each of the family's debts. How the court decides these issues can affect the court's decision on alimony and child support. Those couples who are able to reach settlement on these issues will avoid having their assets consumed by litigation costs. Fault has no effect upon distribution of property or debt.
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Pre-Marital and Cohabitation Agreements

Some people with assets of value want to enter into pre-marital agreements before going through a marriage ceremony; others do not wish to marry but want to cohabit and enter into an agreement that governs the cohabitants' rights and obligations to one another and one another's assets, debts, and income. All of the attorneys in the firm have experience in drafting and
negotiating and, in some cases, litigating the enforceability of such family-type agreements.
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Legal Issues of Non-Married Individuals and Same Gender Cohabitation and Breakup Issues

New Jersey has adopted a Domestic Partnership Act in recognition of the non-marital, family relationships that exist between some same gender individuals (or opposite gender individuals of age 62 or over who live together as a family unit, as the statute reads). Although this is a relatively new area of New Jersey law, we are prepared to draft such agreements and assist individuals covered by the Act to protect themselves and their
rights resulting from their family relationships toward the end that, if necessary, a court will honor the decisions that the couple has made to govern their income, assets, debts, insurance, and other family issues.
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Protection from Abuse Orders/Domestic Violence

At the law offices of Borger Jones Matez & Keeley-Cain P.A., our attorneys represent both sides of domestic violence. The most common forms of domestic violence are assault, threats, and harassment. Abuse does not have to be physical, but can be any behavior that causes the victim to fear for his or her safety. Some examples include veral threats to strike, kick or sexually assault the victim. In New Jersey, victims must be 18 years old or older to file a domestic violence complaint in court. The courts do not distinguish between victims based on physical or psychological condition or by sexual orientation. The Prevention of Domestic Violence Act is not
limited to protecting only married individuals but includes persons who
are cohabiting and even only dating.
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Restraining Orders

Such an order, while not guaranteeing a person's safety from another, does provide a remedy when another person refuses to respect boundaries. If you are a victim of physical abuse or have been verbally assaulted, you should call the police immediately. Once you are safe, please contact an experienced attorney in our offices at Borger Jones Matez & Keeley-Cain P.A. to assist you.
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Adoptions - Who can adopt a child?

In NJ, unlike some other states, married couples are not the only ones who can adopt. Single adults, as well as gay and lesbian couples, can also adopt. A married person cannot adopt a child alone unless the other spouse gives permission.
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What is the difference between an "open" and "closed" adoption?

An "open" adoption is one in which there is some level of contact between the adoptive parents and the biological parents both before and following the adoption. The level of contact varies. A typical arrangement might involve sending pictures back and forth or letters on regular intervals, or in some cases, even having visits. Ultimately, it is up to the adoptive parent how much contact will be allowed. In a "closed" adoption, there is no contact between the adoptive and biological families.
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What is a surrender of parental rights? Can a birth parent change his/her mind after signing a valid surrender?

A surrender of parental rights is a signed consent to place a child for adoption and surrender of all parental rights by a biological parent. It can only be taken by an adoption agency, approved by the state of NJ, at least 72 hours after the birth of the child. Once a valid, agency surrender has been signed, it is irrevocable. A biological parent can only contest a surrender in court if he/she is able to prove fraud, duress or misrepresentation on the part of the adoption agency in the manner in which the surrender was obtained in taking the surrender.
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Are open adoptions enforceable by NJ courts?

At present, NJ courts do not recognize open adoptions. Under NJ law, once an adoption is finalized, all rights of the biological parents are terminated. Therefore, such agreements cannot be enforced by the court.
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Mediation of Divorce and Family Issues

Mediation is an alternative for divorcing couples to reach a fair settlement. Divorce can exact an emotional toll on individuals and families. Mediation can often help divorcing couples reach a settlement in a less adversarial manner than traditional legal processes. Divorce mediation is a confidential process in which a trained mediation professional helps the divorcing parties work out a mutually acceptable solution to their disagreements. Gary Borger received special training in divorce mediation from Harvard Law School. He listens to the issues on both sides and tries to guide the parties to a peaceful resolution. Mr. Borger brings new perspectives to the mediation proceeding because of his special mediation training and 28 years of family law experience in the state of New Jersey.
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